With rabbit vibrators, clit suckers, and dildos dominating the sex toy market, male-centered sex toys aren’t often featured front and center. However, with time, male sex toys are garnering more of a response and, thus, the toys are becoming more and more unique with a larger range of features and stimulation.
Sex toys, except masturbators and sex dolls, are primarily woman-focused. Rabbit vibrators, click suckers, dildos, wands, and bullets are all designed for the female body. While dildos are often seen as a woman’s toy, many men utilize dildos in their solo and partnered play.
As a young sex toy reviewer, I was familiar with most toys but had no interest in exploring male sex toys. At the time, handheld masturbators were of no interest. All of that changed when I was offered an electric male masturbators for a friend to use.
My world opened up, and with that request, I did research and found that the industry had more to it than I initially thought. Men now have a plethora of toys available with twists like rotating, masturbators, and automatic masturbators that take the work off tired wrists.
In this post, I’m going to explore six types of masturbator toys for men.
1 – Rotating male masturbators- a whirlwind of possibilities
Let’s face it, our wrists can only handle so much. In those last final seconds before orgasm, our wrists jerk and are pulled in all sorts of directions that may not be conducive to our orgasm. However, a rotating masturbator could be our crowning jewel that we didn’t know we needed.
Rotating masturbators come in all shapes, sizes, and strengths to jerk you off the best way that works for your body. You just have to pick the right toy with the right features – there are a lot.
A rotating masturbator is designed to mimic a hand job or sex from a partner. With various speeds and patterns, there are tons of ways to fuck yourself to sleep.
As a woman, I often have a hard time reaching partnered orgasm and have had male partners who are struggling and starting from nerves or who come too quickly—stopping intercourse, much to my chagrin. Sex toy for men can assist in delaying orgasm by edging, bringing the male to the edge of orgasm and retreating, with patterns and speeds galore. Additionally, an all-encompassing sex toy can stimulate the shaft as well, not just the head or frenulum of the penis. In the case of rotating male masturbators, every part of his penis can be stimulated (try pairing that with a prostate butt plug!).
2 – Automatic Masturbators That Suck – But in a Good Way!
Women-focused oral sex simulators are currently all the rage, but now it’s time for male toys to have the spotlight. Female oral sex simulators use aeropost technology, whereas male suction masturbators use a vacuum-like pole (and airwave technology) to give you the sensation of dick sucking. Add a dollop of the lube of your choice to your dick before sticking your dick for extra feels.
Feeling lazy as fuck? Many male automatic masturbators that mimic oral sex can be used hands-free, making for the laziest jerking of your solo sex life. Imagine the possibilities available to you when you’ve got two hands free. You can be pleasuring your partner while you get automated pleasure from your masturbator.
3 – Prostate-Stimulating Toys
This author has been with her fair share of men, and the majority of men in her life have never explored their prostate – or the male G-Spot. I’ve had the pleasure of exploring anal stimulation with several partners who have prostates, and the feedback was well received. Starting with fingers, I ramp up the stimulation and suggest that my male partner wears a butt plug while they penetrate me, or receive oral. With a stuffed butt, the possibilities are endless. (As a bonus, have your female-bodied partner wear a butt plug, too, during intercourse for a magical experience!)
Butt plugs are in high demand among people of all genders, and are designed to be either insertable or ribbed for exquisite removal. A dramatic curve in the toy can reach the prostate and stimulate it. Many people wear butt plugs during solo play, or in public, for naughty stimulation. That pressure against the prostate and the experience of penetrating someone is exquisite and intense. It’s an experience like no other that leads me to feel jealous as I watch my guys bust in pleasure.
4 – Male Chastity Cages- Contain Your Excitement
I discovered the dual pleasure of chastity play with my ex, who was a trans woman. Chastity play was (sex) life-changing. The idea that someone with a penis wanted to cage it floored and hooked me, and after that, caging my partner was a constant way to play. This experience was a pleasure for both of us in a way I’d never experienced before. I was entirely in control of my partner’s orgasm, and at the same time, her lack of control turned me on, too.
Having complete control over a partner’s cock is one of the most sexually pleasing experiences that I’ve had. There are numerous types of male cages made from various materials, such as plastic or metal, whose comfort levels vary among users. My partner preferred a metal cage.
With Chastity, the power exchange of partners is an experience that excites. It inspired and pleased me, as well as my partner. I highly encourage exploring kinky stuff – you never know what will excite you.
Tips
- Have the wearer perform world sex on the other partner. The arousal will be evident. The discomfort of the caged partner is enthralling as their dick bulges against the cage.
- Engaging in exciting material like ethical porn videos or erotica while you remain in total control of your partner’s sexual options is enthralling.
- Sit on their face until you come. Their knowing that they can’t go brings the sexual control and frustration. Don’t uncage them and come on their face, knowing they can’t do a thing about their arousal till you release them.
- Vibrating cock rings serve more than one purpose.
- Cock rings are viewed by many as a tool to maintain an erection. However, there are now a multitude of cock rings- ones that constrict, some that vibrate or enhance their partner’s pleasure, and heightened pleasure, making orgasm a possibility for many
Vibrating cock rings often have a bit of a nub, perfect for a woman to grind against while they wears the cock ring and she rides them. Thus, the pleasure of the cock ring is mutual. People with penises don’t necessarily need a partner to play with. Tighten the restraints against our cock and experience solo pleasure with the cock ring, or choose one with a vibrating butt-plug attached.
There are tons of whale sex toys like masturbators, cock rings, rotating male masturbators, and automatic male males that stimulate oral sex in various parts of the body. There are countless toys for men, just as there are for women, and they can bring pleasure to both solo and partnered individuals. Don’t let the stigma of male sex toys turn you off to this pleasure – explore your body and find new mind-blowing techniques to give you a toe-curling orgasm.
